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Tuesday, June 4, 2013

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Join me, Ja' Wilborn, and my co-host, Ross Dixon, on "Soulcially Yours" with special guest  and founder of Hitch Radio Ayinde O Alakoye.

Ayinde O. Alakoye, "LL Cool A", Founder/CEO of Hitch Radio, a social network that lets you Hitch-a-Ride on more than 20,000 live Radio streams from around the world for free and play DJ for your friends in real-time. He’s been an on-air guest for KFWB, The Bill Handel Show (KFI-Los Angeles) and Dr. Drew’s Loveline Show as well as a frequent technology panelist (RadioInk C13, DigitalLA, CEDIA). Before Hitch Radio, Ayinde was a speech contributor and advisor to President Obama during the 2008 campaign. A decade prior, he began his media career as the #1 ad sales executive at the #1 Radio station in the country, WTOP, and was then recruited by Clear Channel and CBS (Howard Stern), respectively.

Sunday, February 3, 2013

These 8 foot hips don't lie or do they? Unhealthy denial? Or Confident Diva? | SoulcialMe

I definitely do my best NOT to be judgmental (I fail miserably at times) but when I think something or someone is in a state of detriment, I must speak up. When is too much "too much"? Cliché right? Let me explain. I came across this story in a group I frequent and I felt compelled to comment on its outrageous{ness}. Yes, I think it’s ridiculous. 39 year old Mikel Ruffinelli holds the record for the World’s Largest Hip. She says, "I love my curves, I love my hips, I love my attributes, I love being unique." Her confidence is cause for applause but is it a farce for her timidity? For example, in the movie, 8 Mile, Rabbit (Eminem) had to battle against Papa Doc on the mic. Rabbit steeped to the mic rapping about his own shortcomings and disparities so that Papa Doc did not have the opportunity to use them against him. Could this be the same scenario?

Are we [the media] perpetuating and contributing to Ruffinelli's unhealthy denial of her body image and celebrating her 8 FOOT circumference hips by giving her the new world record title for 'World's Largest Hips"? What I mean is what is she willing to do to keep her "shapely loveliness" to maintain the title. It does appear that she is content with her physical attributes and her state of mind remains upbeat and jovial, but is it a front? Ruffinelli contends, "I think it’s feminine to have curves. It’s very womanly, it makes us beautiful. I rather be this size and happy with me. Loving me. Than to be skinny; that size and be unhappy ". I say too much of ANYTHING is off balance (NO PUN INTENDED) and ignorance is bliss.

She says that is genetics rather than diet and a consequence of having 4 children... REALLY? I guess my intelligence is in question here. I do applaud her for exercising but is it enough? Is it consistent and conducive to a weight loss?

Ruffinelli is now considered a celebrity and has some VERY racy photos of herself out on the net – We will NOT be posting those. O_o

Soulcially Yours,
IOIO

Thursday, January 3, 2013

5 Thoughts That Will Sabotage Your Business in 2013 | #SoulcialMe

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If you're asking yourself this same question today, read the rest of this post VERY carefully.

Here's the reality, What's holding you back isn't what you're DOING it's what you're THINKING. The thoughts you're having about yourself and your business, day after day, hour after hour minute after minute are having a PROFOUND effect on your results. I'm not kidding, when I changed my thoughts EVERYTHING changed. And they can for you, too!

5 Thoughts That Will Set You Back This Year

Here are 5 particularly harmful thoughts that will set you back BIG TIME this year.

1. "I don't have the time!"

Nonsense. Sure you're busy we're ALL busy. Here's what I've learned about time, it's NOT how much time you have. It's how you MANAGE YOURSELF through time. Even on my busiest day, I was able to do at least ONE thing for my business, even if it was only reading a few lines in a Personal Development book. Think that's not enough? If you do at least 1 thing for your business EVERY day this year, you'll be SHOCKED at the results.

2. "I need the money"

Everyone loves the money that comes with making sales and acquiring new team members. But the minute you put the sale in front of helping someone, your business will be in BIG trouble.  There's a VIBRATION you put out when you're sole purpose is to make money it's a negative feel that will subconsciously drive people away. They'll see it in your eyes or hear it in your voice and they'll run away FAST. Replace "I need a sale today" with "I need to find someone to help today" and watch the magic happen!

3. "I'm not ready..."

Understand this, NO ONE is ever 100% ready for anything!
If you keep thinking that you're not ready, you will become paralyzed with self doubt and fear. The only cure for "I'm not ready" is "Ready or not, here I go!" Try replacing this thought with it's negative cousin and see what happens this year!

4. "Who would listen to me?"

Wow, this was one of my favorites! Who am I to lead anyone? I don't know enough yet! Yet here's the reality, if you don't show up as a leader, then your prophecy will come true. NO one will follow you. You MUST lead, even when you think you're not worthy because there will ALWAYS be someone who knows less than you. There will always be people who need your help. LEAD and success will find you!

5. "I'd get those results, too if..."

Envy is an ugly monster. When you start comparing yourself to other marketers, when you become envious of their results... NOTHING positive comes out of it. Your path is unique. You simply cannot compare yourself to anyone else and besides you have NO idea what that person went through to get those great results. Perhaps they've struggled mightily and this is the culmination of their efforts. We all have our own success path to follow.

Don't be envious of others be GRATEFUL! Thank them for being yet another example of how SUCCESS is POSSIBLE and know that if you keep doing the right things consistently in your business, soon YOU will be the one with the results!